to take a wife by one's own choice; to invite the groom (who will live with the bride's family)
[have the groom move into one’s house after the marriage]∶招人入赘做女婿
[marry into and live with one’s bride’s family]∶到女方家里做女婿
招女婿。
如：“比武招亲”。入赘。《儒林外史．第六回》：“你向奶奶说，我在家不多时耽搁，就要同二相公到省里 去周府招亲。”